Sunday, August 16, 2009
At last my dear sis Vitz gave me a good news! Thanks Vitz. Am super happy for her. Love you many many ka.!
And one big thanks for calling me down for our dear Gayu 21st Birthday celebration. Really enjoyed myself. Been long since i had actually hung out with such a big group.
Oh. I did this random survey, asking people online, "Think of four people you can trust (other than your family members)". Only a small handful could think of four. Many stopped at three people. Well, at least they have three.
As for me, when i asked myself that question, i find it really hard. Not to offend anyone. Especially my NavaZ and my close sisters and brothers. But seriously, i find it super hard to trust anyone.
This reminds me of what i told my 'baby' Boi annae. We were practically arguing about some soul, whom we both dislike. And i was telling him that its not right to trust someone 100%. You can trust a person 99% but that 1% should be left, so that u can doubt him/her.
It may sound super ridiculous that im actually saying that u need to suspect someone. But that's reality. Are you very sure that you can trust this particular person? Afterall, that particular person would have doubted himself/herself before.
Ask yourself. Has there ever been a day where you doubted your decision? Has there been a day where u think that you are not being truthful to yourself? Has there been a day where you think that you are hiding something deep within your heart and you are unable to express it to that particular person because of the consequences it will cause?
Well, with so much doubts yourself, how can you be sure that u can trust some other persom 100%? That 1% of doubt allows you to actually be careful and think before you take a decision.
But you don't have to feel guilty that you do not trust that person 100%. At least you trust him/her 99%. That's a huge sum compared to the miserable 1% that u doubt him/her.
Sometimes, that 1% of doubt can keep you strong when the person whom u trusted so much actually backstabs u. That 1% of doubt will assure you that "at least i had doubted him/her". You won't feel that bad afterall. Haha. Sounds mean eh? Trust me one this. (even now, just trust me 99%)
I may sound like some dejected soul, sick and tired of living life. Haha. Honestly, i'm not. I am just a random soul who ends up thinking about random stuff and that's y i come up with such crazy ideas, which are eventually reflected in my blog. Haha.
and so the bottomline is: Trust is indeed the basis of all relationship. But never expect anything out of that trust. And just like how patience has its limits, trust too should have it's limits.
Reminds me of the Rajinikanth song: "Thamarai ilai thaneer pol nee, oddi oddaamal iru"
(translation: just like water on lotus leaf, keep all relationships on a 'suface level' - something like that la)
and this brings me to another question. If trust is the basis of all relationships, how come it becomes the source of major sorrows, when that trust is broken? Is it cos of the trust crossing its own limits?
Cheers,
RaghaBoi
JVR :) ¶ 7:05 PM
And one big thanks for calling me down for our dear Gayu 21st Birthday celebration. Really enjoyed myself. Been long since i had actually hung out with such a big group.
Oh. I did this random survey, asking people online, "Think of four people you can trust (other than your family members)". Only a small handful could think of four. Many stopped at three people. Well, at least they have three.
As for me, when i asked myself that question, i find it really hard. Not to offend anyone. Especially my NavaZ and my close sisters and brothers. But seriously, i find it super hard to trust anyone.
This reminds me of what i told my 'baby' Boi annae. We were practically arguing about some soul, whom we both dislike. And i was telling him that its not right to trust someone 100%. You can trust a person 99% but that 1% should be left, so that u can doubt him/her.
It may sound super ridiculous that im actually saying that u need to suspect someone. But that's reality. Are you very sure that you can trust this particular person? Afterall, that particular person would have doubted himself/herself before.
Ask yourself. Has there ever been a day where you doubted your decision? Has there been a day where u think that you are not being truthful to yourself? Has there been a day where you think that you are hiding something deep within your heart and you are unable to express it to that particular person because of the consequences it will cause?
Well, with so much doubts yourself, how can you be sure that u can trust some other persom 100%? That 1% of doubt allows you to actually be careful and think before you take a decision.
But you don't have to feel guilty that you do not trust that person 100%. At least you trust him/her 99%. That's a huge sum compared to the miserable 1% that u doubt him/her.
Sometimes, that 1% of doubt can keep you strong when the person whom u trusted so much actually backstabs u. That 1% of doubt will assure you that "at least i had doubted him/her". You won't feel that bad afterall. Haha. Sounds mean eh? Trust me one this. (even now, just trust me 99%)
I may sound like some dejected soul, sick and tired of living life. Haha. Honestly, i'm not. I am just a random soul who ends up thinking about random stuff and that's y i come up with such crazy ideas, which are eventually reflected in my blog. Haha.
and so the bottomline is: Trust is indeed the basis of all relationship. But never expect anything out of that trust. And just like how patience has its limits, trust too should have it's limits.
Reminds me of the Rajinikanth song: "Thamarai ilai thaneer pol nee, oddi oddaamal iru"
(translation: just like water on lotus leaf, keep all relationships on a 'suface level' - something like that la)
and this brings me to another question. If trust is the basis of all relationships, how come it becomes the source of major sorrows, when that trust is broken? Is it cos of the trust crossing its own limits?
Cheers,
RaghaBoi
JVR :) ¶ 7:05 PM
