Sunday, January 3, 2010
Is it just me or is everyone around me just changing?
I don't know. Honestly, i'm lost.
I was telling Vitz that i haven't moved on to 2010. Which is so true. I have been/am living 2009 for the past three days. That makes it 368 days of 2009!
I was prepared for 2010. But now that it has begun, i know that i'm not.
Issues that have not been solved did not seem to end. They decided to follow me to a new beginning. So when something continues, it isn't exactly a new beginning, is it?
I'm trying to solve these issues. Well, i know i can do it fast. Maybe a week, or two.
But the thing is the memories. I also want to leave those memories behind, with the long gone (for ALL) 2009. But i doubt so. It will follow me awhile at least :(
Haha. 2010 didnt start of the way i wanted it to.
But hey, who's the pilot of my life? Me or the people around me?
Duh, ME. So who handles the steering. ME! So yeah. :)
I will get back right on track sometime soon. Not long!
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Change. There has this saying going on around, change is the only constant. For those who don't understand, it just means that the only thing that doesn't change is change itself.
Look around u. Is anything ever the same? The leaves, they move. The TV, channels change. The fan, it spins. Everything!
So if change is the only constant, why do people (even ME) get surprised with change? Is it because they don't expect the change? Which is rather stupid because, once again, change is the only constant? Or is it that they already expected a change, but the changed that occured, wasn't the way they expected it to be? Then again, the change itself is a change, so shouldn't we be prepared that the change will change, since change is the only constant?
Well, looking at a different perspective. People aren't used to changes yet because life is ever changing. It's just the rate at this change. For example, your breathing should not be changing so differently, like if it's 18 per minute now, in the next five seconds, there shouldn't be much of change. However, the number of times the your phone rings, you do not know when it is going to ring next. It could be ringing once in two minutes. Or it could be ringing once in an hour.
So, its safe to say that people are TOO accustomed to changes that they become too comfortable with any changes that occur around them, that sometimes when changes do not occur as and when they want it to, it becomes a setback to them. If the change occurs TOO fast, it's understandble why people panick. But if the change happens TOO slow, then maybe it can become a problem because we should be prepared, but somehow, we become too complacent.
Change change change. Has there ever been a person who has never changed his way of living? I dunno. Cos im not planning to be one! Cos i found out that the only where people can move on from where they are, is to accept changes annd expect more changes. So when u accept changes, don't u change as well?
Moral of the 'story' is: Don't be rigid. U ain't a metal. You are HUMAN :)
Unable to leave 2009,
RaghaBoi ¶ 9:02 PM
I don't know. Honestly, i'm lost.
I was telling Vitz that i haven't moved on to 2010. Which is so true. I have been/am living 2009 for the past three days. That makes it 368 days of 2009!
I was prepared for 2010. But now that it has begun, i know that i'm not.
Issues that have not been solved did not seem to end. They decided to follow me to a new beginning. So when something continues, it isn't exactly a new beginning, is it?
I'm trying to solve these issues. Well, i know i can do it fast. Maybe a week, or two.
But the thing is the memories. I also want to leave those memories behind, with the long gone (for ALL) 2009. But i doubt so. It will follow me awhile at least :(
Haha. 2010 didnt start of the way i wanted it to.
But hey, who's the pilot of my life? Me or the people around me?
Duh, ME. So who handles the steering. ME! So yeah. :)
I will get back right on track sometime soon. Not long!
=====
Change. There has this saying going on around, change is the only constant. For those who don't understand, it just means that the only thing that doesn't change is change itself.
Look around u. Is anything ever the same? The leaves, they move. The TV, channels change. The fan, it spins. Everything!
So if change is the only constant, why do people (even ME) get surprised with change? Is it because they don't expect the change? Which is rather stupid because, once again, change is the only constant? Or is it that they already expected a change, but the changed that occured, wasn't the way they expected it to be? Then again, the change itself is a change, so shouldn't we be prepared that the change will change, since change is the only constant?
Well, looking at a different perspective. People aren't used to changes yet because life is ever changing. It's just the rate at this change. For example, your breathing should not be changing so differently, like if it's 18 per minute now, in the next five seconds, there shouldn't be much of change. However, the number of times the your phone rings, you do not know when it is going to ring next. It could be ringing once in two minutes. Or it could be ringing once in an hour.
So, its safe to say that people are TOO accustomed to changes that they become too comfortable with any changes that occur around them, that sometimes when changes do not occur as and when they want it to, it becomes a setback to them. If the change occurs TOO fast, it's understandble why people panick. But if the change happens TOO slow, then maybe it can become a problem because we should be prepared, but somehow, we become too complacent.
Change change change. Has there ever been a person who has never changed his way of living? I dunno. Cos im not planning to be one! Cos i found out that the only where people can move on from where they are, is to accept changes annd expect more changes. So when u accept changes, don't u change as well?
Moral of the 'story' is: Don't be rigid. U ain't a metal. You are HUMAN :)
Unable to leave 2009,
RaghaBoi ¶ 9:02 PM
