Tuesday, March 23, 2010
I'm on off today. Supposed to be heading out. But well, the rain spoilt my plans and I did not have a wet weather plan (unlike my EMT POC. Ha). and so here i am, typing a post.
Was Facebook-ing. Came across Puva's post about indians and gossip. I replied to it in Facebook itself. So if you wanna read it, go to her account. But the bottom line that i wish to emphasis here is:
"Life is yours. Make the decision. Just don't regret it".
I know of many who will sigh (heavily) upon reading that particular quote mentioned above. Well, that's cos this will be the __"many"ieth time im repeating that. And well, i can bravely say that, this is the principle i base my life upon!
I know that i have made decisions that i do regret now. But well, that's way before i started following that statement. And now, when i think about it, i see no point regretting. cos after all the only thing that can change, if i sit and regret about what has happen is TIME. That, i would consider, not exactly a change but a WASTE, waste of time (if you can't really see the explicit difference).
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I was walking from point to point with my colleague Jamie and was telling him how much i love the view from my bunk. If you don't know why, cos of the sunrise and maybe cos of the memory that it brings back. The time when WE (me and someone special, i suppose) stayed awake the whole night just to see the sunrise. Which turned out to be an epic failiure cos we didn't get to see it, cos of the clouds! Sad huh!
Well, it was just when i was telling him about the beauty of the sunrise that some thought raced thru my head, with regards to the sunrise and us! Just like how we did not mange to see the sunrise, could it be because we weren't meant to see it? Just like how it could be that we weren't meant to be? *Think*
I don't deny that i tried, again. I sent a friend request last weekend, only to get it rejected. Haha. And so here ends the chapter, and maybe the story itself. Abrupt it may be, that's the best ending anyone could have ever known. It's the best ending for that character!
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and i was having a SMS convo with this friend of mine. Somehow we had to touch on the topic of trust. And not so coincidentally, the Nijangal Drama Series was being broadcasted on TV. It was 1030 plus la. What else do u expect an indian to be doing other than watching that show! It has become an addiction.
Interestingly, the drama is entitled Nijangal, which means truth, but everything that goes on in the drama unfolds from some form of lie. Maybe that is why it is captioned as "the untold", which i personally feel is such a appropriate and fantastic choice of word! Practically every character in the drama has been living a 'fake' life.
Coming back from the drift. He asked me whether i would forgive and accept someone who has repented... And i said, "I think so". When i posted him back the same question, his answer was a definite yes. BUT "i will still suspect him la"...
So now, aren't you the one cheating him. You tell him to you accepted his apology and all but deep in your heart, you are not willing to trust him. So might as well, just tell him you don't trust him mah?!?!
Immaculate Scar
RaghaBoi :) ¶ 10:58 AM
Was Facebook-ing. Came across Puva's post about indians and gossip. I replied to it in Facebook itself. So if you wanna read it, go to her account. But the bottom line that i wish to emphasis here is:
"Life is yours. Make the decision. Just don't regret it".
I know of many who will sigh (heavily) upon reading that particular quote mentioned above. Well, that's cos this will be the __"many"ieth time im repeating that. And well, i can bravely say that, this is the principle i base my life upon!
I know that i have made decisions that i do regret now. But well, that's way before i started following that statement. And now, when i think about it, i see no point regretting. cos after all the only thing that can change, if i sit and regret about what has happen is TIME. That, i would consider, not exactly a change but a WASTE, waste of time (if you can't really see the explicit difference).
......................................
I was walking from point to point with my colleague Jamie and was telling him how much i love the view from my bunk. If you don't know why, cos of the sunrise and maybe cos of the memory that it brings back. The time when WE (me and someone special, i suppose) stayed awake the whole night just to see the sunrise. Which turned out to be an epic failiure cos we didn't get to see it, cos of the clouds! Sad huh!
Well, it was just when i was telling him about the beauty of the sunrise that some thought raced thru my head, with regards to the sunrise and us! Just like how we did not mange to see the sunrise, could it be because we weren't meant to see it? Just like how it could be that we weren't meant to be? *Think*
I don't deny that i tried, again. I sent a friend request last weekend, only to get it rejected. Haha. And so here ends the chapter, and maybe the story itself. Abrupt it may be, that's the best ending anyone could have ever known. It's the best ending for that character!
...................
and i was having a SMS convo with this friend of mine. Somehow we had to touch on the topic of trust. And not so coincidentally, the Nijangal Drama Series was being broadcasted on TV. It was 1030 plus la. What else do u expect an indian to be doing other than watching that show! It has become an addiction.
Interestingly, the drama is entitled Nijangal, which means truth, but everything that goes on in the drama unfolds from some form of lie. Maybe that is why it is captioned as "the untold", which i personally feel is such a appropriate and fantastic choice of word! Practically every character in the drama has been living a 'fake' life.
Coming back from the drift. He asked me whether i would forgive and accept someone who has repented... And i said, "I think so". When i posted him back the same question, his answer was a definite yes. BUT "i will still suspect him la"...
So now, aren't you the one cheating him. You tell him to you accepted his apology and all but deep in your heart, you are not willing to trust him. So might as well, just tell him you don't trust him mah?!?!
Immaculate Scar
RaghaBoi :) ¶ 10:58 AM
