Sunday, May 23, 2010
Nilavinai Enakku Arugil Kaatiyathu Neethaanae
Malarin Mugavarigal Sonnathu Neethanae
Kaatru Boomi Vaanam
Kaathal Paesum Megam
Ariumugam Seithathu Yaar
En Anbae Neethanae
Just lyrics from my all time favourites - Oru Poiyavathu Sol Kannae.
"What happens if the person you hate most becomes your second personality?"
And by this, i don't mean a real second person. I am pretty sure that eacn individual has somesort of character in them that they wished they never had. One that isn't exactly good,or something that they were never proud about to consider as an asset and flaunt it.
And what if that particular trait/character becomes the empowering one and takes control of the your life?
Surely, you would have control over it, since it's all about you. But what if you just seem t be weak and let that 'negative' trait take over - leaving you unable to fight back? It's just life the normal cold (what people mistake as flu), where the bug takes over you and makes you feel so miserable that you don't want to work and just spend all day sleeping.
In this kind of situation, what would one do?
- Let it take control
- Wait for the right time to fight back
- Wait for help to come
- DIE (haha :p)
Jealousy brings u nowhere!
Anger brings u somewhere, far from being where you want to be.
Happiness brings u everywhere.
Sadness brings you everywhere too, all those places you wouldn't want to be.
Heard this before,
"If you fail to plan, you are planning yo fail".
People who fail in life - do they fail to plan? Or things just happen and they just begin to lose hope and let things fall in place, which isn't the way they wanted things to be in the first place?
I mean, sometimes, when you plan a day ahead, and things take the wrong turn, it ends up leaving you in a day of total mess - something you cannot stop cos everything goes haywire.
When things that you plan for a day can become a failure, what is the guarantee that things you plan for life, would remain the way you planned it?
Honestly, things do NOT turn out the way you want it to be, most of the time. A fellow NSF friend of mine said this " 90% of the things you worry about never happens". Which is true. And at the same time, 90% of the things that you don't worry about happen! Like WTH sia! :)
All in all, there's only one thing that you could do - PREPARE for the worst.
and here it comes again, whatever choice you make, make sure it's YOUR choice and a choice that you never REGRET! :)
Cheers!
Planning to plan,
Ragha
